Becky and me in Park City, Utah.

If youโ€™re a client, you know you matter. We have a relationship. We talk about our families. You matter.

In an industry where mega-investment-firms are acquiring medium-sized firms, what tends to get lost in the churn is you, the clientโ€”the one making it all work. Integration of your needs into a bigger firmโ€™s desires is like a chicken processing plant, where thereโ€™s not much to talk about afterward because the relationship died long ago, and youโ€™re there for the pickinโ€™.

Bringing in a new client takes time. It shouldnโ€™t happen with a takeover deal. It takes care. It takes several discussions before, eventually, trust is established. Thatโ€™s when our talks are like an afternoon sail off Newport, RI, in a light breeze. Itโ€™s relaxing. Itโ€™s calming. Weโ€™re enjoying the sail together, talking about the good stuffโ€”the stuff that matters.

You shouldnโ€™t get tense or stuck, wondering how to pronounce the name of the guy on your monthly statement. Heโ€™s not thinking about how to pronounce yours. Heโ€™s thinking about gathering assets. If heโ€™s a fiduciary, what does heโ€”or his army of sales repsโ€”know about you? Do you feel like another chicken leg on the conveyor belt on the way to market?

Action Line: You deserve to be heard. Your story is worth hearing. Relationships need to be cared for and tended to like a pasture-raised hen, with all the freedom to roam her world, and not like some chunk of meat tended to by a careless worker with a blank stare along the conveyor belt.

Originally posted October 29, 2020.

Originally posted on Your Survival Guy.